Wedding is one of the extremely elegant parts of our life, the part where we actually glean someone to spend our rest of the life with; the part where we feel like life is nothing but a romantic fairy tale. But still it is not right to forget the very person who has shared a beautiful journey since your adolescence to the maturity i.e., your Best friend. Let’s glean some miraculous ways to ensuring your friend about the love you have for them.
Everything blooms when we finally have the one loving person in our life whose smile have the power to turnaround our knackered face, the one who take care of everything delightfully about us, the one who makes us feel like most special person on this planet. Undeniably it’s a really great feeling having our darling soul-mate in our dearly lives but still forgetting our friends for it, who have been with us since a long time isn't a sagacious thing to do. Best friends are the life-saver parachutes of our life who aid us in exploring new things, they are exclusive bunch of peoples who not only sentient about our little dirty secrets but also lived them with us. It is not wrong to portray this keen facet that we all got pretty busy after getting married with the love of our life but still we shouldn't forget our dearest friends. Here we are leveraging an utter guide on how to ensure that your loveliest friend doesn't feel ignored after your marriage.
3. GOLDEN POINTS
1. HOW TO COMMUNICATE? –
The first and foremost activity in array to ensure that your friend doesn't feel ignored is to reach out to them. Tell your best friend that you not only care about your friendship with your friend but you also care about them. Share your heart feelings to them that nevertheless you won’t be able to hang out as before, but they will always be on the top-notch list for you. This not only lightens up your best friend a bit but also facilitates them to understand your situation and bestow the same love to you like they do before.
2. MAKE TIME FOR THEM-
The first thing which generate your bonding with your dearly friend is the passion of the desire for the same thing. It may be sports, watching movies, sharing same love for music. Yeah it was mutual interests which brought you close to your friend at the first place and it is the time when you continue to share your interests with them. Talk with your partner calming about when you want to enjoy with your friends and then try to come on a common decision. It’s true that you not be competent to met them thrice a week and enjoy your weekend together, but still you can be in touch with them with our ultra modern gimmicks with social media applications. Both of you feel weird in the beginning to set specific time table but ultimately it will work out for you.
3. LISTEN YOUR FRIENDS –
when you go out with your friends on a get together, try to maintain a self- control on your desire to tell them about how beautiful or smart your partner is, or which kinds of fight you do with them, specifically when your friends aren't in the same phase of life like you. It is true that your best friend really want to know what is happening in your life, but it doesn't mean that he/she don’t want to talk about their solely life with you. Moreover this is the time when your friend really wants to see that you still share the same love and experiences that made you friends in the very first place. It may seem a gigantic trouble at first but everything will lighten up when you share a joyous moment or a beautiful story of your past which you both have lived tremendously.
SUMMARY
Undeniably gleaning the one you love for the rest of your live and getting married to them are one of the most beautiful things which can happen to someone but it doesn't really mean that you have to sacrifice your special bond of friendship for this. Things will happen day in and day out but some things will always remain imperative for us, and friendship will be top of that.
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